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Living close to others can cause friction. Our personal space shrinks, our freedom to be loud decreases, and we can’t always do what we want whenever we want. There are other people to consider, other schedules, other routines, and other habits. We all vie for the same space, so friction sets in.

When we’re single, we gain independence from others, make our own choices, and do whatever we like whenever we want. When we get married or have a roommate, we need to share, consider, and become other-oriented in order to co-habitat cooperatively. But when we have children, He calls us to sacrifice. Since the little ones depend on us, we must ensure to meet their needs and best interests, that might cost us.

We must be considerate to live in harmony with others. We must make sacrifices, think of others before ourselves, and show the unconditional love of Christ. It’s a perfect training ground for spiritual growth.

Do we cling to our selfish desires and insist on our own way? Or do we seize this opportunity to show the unconditional love of God? It is natural for humans to gravitate toward comfort. But to get uncomfortable intentionally for the sake of another is God’s way.

He went beyond uncomfortable for us. He sent His Son as the ultimate sacrifice so that we all can live with Him in Heaven. Jesus went through excruciating pain and suffering for our sake. He paid the ultimate price for the redemption of the world.

So, when we get a little miffed about others making things inconvenient or disruptive for us, we need to put things into perspective. God’s love goes far beyond the insignificant. It is without condition and without hesitation. It is constant, other-focused, sacrificial, and eternal. We must be likewise.

“We love because he first loved us. Whoever claims to love God yet hates a brother or sister is a liar. For whoever does not love their brother and sister, whom they have seen, cannot love God, whom they have not seen. And he has given us this command: Anyone who loves God must also love their brother and sister.” 1 John 4:19-21

“If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.” Romans 12:18

“Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of others.” Philippians 2:3-4

“You, my brothers and sisters, were called to be free. But do not use your freedom to indulge the flesh; rather, serve one another humbly in love. For the entire law is fulfilled in keeping this one command: “Love your neighbor as yourself.” Galatians 5:13-14

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